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Ted Hoef |
Welcome to the fifth issue of the 2007-08 academic year for Staying Connected,
a newsletter for parents of first-year students. We hope you’ll enjoy
the informative articles, some of which have been written by students
and staff members and some which were prepared for Webster by PaperClip
Communications.
Giving Thanks
In the past month, I spent some time sending thank you notes to friends
and family for holiday gifts and to show appreciation for the time we
were able to spend together during the holiday break. This got me to
thinking about all the things for which I am thankful. On the professional
side of my life, I am thankful for the fantastic staff of student affairs
professionals with whom I have the pleasure of working every day. These
folks are passionate about providing an excellent learning environment
for Webster University students. I am also thankful for the opportunity
to have an influence on students’ lives. And I am thankful for those who
inspire me.
I have been inspired by colleagues, faculty,
friends, and family. Current and former students often provide inspiration
in a variety of ways. I am inspired by the growth and development of new
students and the seemingly boundless energy that they have. I recently
did a workshop at our emerging leader retreat where three-fourths of the
participants were freshmen. This was the most impressive group of new
emerging student leaders that we’ve ever had at this annual retreat. I
am looking forward to all that they will accomplish in campus life over
the course of the next 3-4 years.
Recently I had dinner with a group of alumni
from the class of 1999 with whom I have remained close over the years.
They were not trying to inspire, but they should did. It was great to
hear about all the amazing things going on their lives. They were
sincerely grateful for the way in which their experiences at Webster
helped shape the people that they are today.
Career Development
I have just completed an extensive assessment of career services at
Webster, a project that took eight months. During this process, I
learned a great deal more about what employers and grad schools are
demanding. We are in the process of planning how we will educate our
students about these demands, so that our students can prepare
themselves to be marketable to employers and grad schools. The job
market is very competitive and we need to help our students prepare,
which often goes beyond what they are doing in the classroom. I urge
you to encourage your son or daughter to contact Career Services
early in their college years. There are a couple of articles in this
issue that can offer some more specific steps that first-year
students should be taking now.
Struggling Students
I just read an interesting article on the Reasons Why Students Struggle
During the Freshman Year and What Can Be Done About It. Carol Carter,
the author of Keys to Success, a book used in many first year experience
courses around the country, offers the following insights.
- Students lack self-awareness and often make career
decisions based on very little information. Students should plan to do one or two
internships. Without this kind of experience, students can’t make good decisions
about their future. Another benefit is that companies are expecting students to
have had 1-2 internships and this can make a huge difference when competing with
other graduates in today’s job market.
- Technology has allowed students to isolate socially.
We can’t let students hide behind technology and avoid human contact. They must
take risks and talk with people who are different from them and to speak with
faculty and staff, who might otherwise intimidate them, to take advantage of the
resources the University offers. Young people will be hampered if they do not
learn the basics of self advocacy. They need to learn who is here to help on campus
and take the initiative to get the assistance they need.
- First-year students lack healthy boundaries and make
poor judgments. Parents need to be aware of this but not jump in to quickly to solve
problems for their students. Some parents protect their sons and daughters from
making adult choices. If parents are always there to coddle them, students will not
learn the important life skills gained from dealing with setbacks.
- Some students do not have positive role models in their
life on campus. There are many students who are willing to serve as peer mentors,
whether it be an RA, student organization leader, or just an older student in the
same major who has been around campus a little while longer.
- New students are often stressed. Some of this stress
is the result of parental pressure. Some of it comes from the lack of emotional
intelligence, such as knowing when to calm themselves down.
- Some new students experience a lack of on-campus
connections. There are over 60 student organizations at Webster and all kinds
of activities and programs offered every week. Students can check out the list
of student organizations at:
http://www.webster.edu/studlife/stud_orgs/studorgs.html. Calendars of campus events
can be found at:
http://www.webster.edu/studlife/calendar/calendar.html and
http://www.webster.edu/calendar/calendar.html.
We hope to have another newsletter out to you in March. Please send us your suggestions for future articles.
Go Gorloks!
Sincerely,
Ted Hoef, Ph.D.
Associate Vice President and Dean of Students
hoeftl@webster.edu
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